Man's work...every woman's co wife.

Boy: "My work is my priority"

Girl: Work?? But you promised me you will take me out for a dinner tonight & i canceled my important meet just for that & you have no time for me.....Bla bla bla

Its very usual that men always select their work over anything else & women always prioritise love, relations......Why does this happen??

Men's are more concern about their works & we women in our works also take some time out to think about & to miss the male in our lives.

On contrary, Sometime women too emphasises on love such that they start demanding their men to just leave their work in hand no matter the importance & how urgent is it required to be done but they just need them to be available all time......In both these cases ai'nt we feel like saying....How mean??

Frankly speaking man's work is the co-wife for every woman ...lolz.. :-)

Co-wife because men are spending more time & are very busy & engaged all the time with their work thinking 24*7 about the same prioritising many times their work before the women of their lives & their relations.

This is nothing but just the possessiveness of both...One who is possessive for work & the other for love & there is no end for these possessiveness making balance in their lives more difficult by unable to meet or satisfy each other basic needs.

I have heard girls sharing their sad stories that their partners give no time to them & few hours which they get to spend together those also are spent discussing work meetings, progress, checking official mails & answering office calls & on other sides boys complaining "yaar ek number ki chipku hai, bas main hi main chahiye chaubiso ghante :-) Sarcastic though very common stories of all time!!

But many problems here gets solved  just when these two understand & accepts each other needs & handle them with care.

If man remembers that just like his work is so important for him for woman he is as important as it is & if he can't stay without his work than how could he expect woman to stay  without him?? at the same time woman should also understand that if man cant give time when he is in work that doesn't mean he don't love or respect her but its just that he has his priorities in which work comes first which she needs to accept as ultimately he too has his need of being loved & loving for which he will surely return to his one & only option .......his woman just like an old hindi song "Jaaiye Aap Kahaan Jaayenge
Ye Nazar Laut Ke Phir Aayegii "  ;-)
So why to treat these blissful needs of each other with possessiveness.

If man is busy working give him his own time & he will be back happily to cheer up with his love & if woman is craving for her man's time he should also give her his time so that she won't ever want him to leave his work next time as by then she knows he will be there for her once he is done with her co-wife....his work ;-)

Good night & Happy blogging!