Man's work...every woman's co wife.

Boy: "My work is my priority"

Girl: Work?? But you promised me you will take me out for a dinner tonight & i canceled my important meet just for that & you have no time for me.....Bla bla bla

Its very usual that men always select their work over anything else & women always prioritise love, relations......Why does this happen??

Men's are more concern about their works & we women in our works also take some time out to think about & to miss the male in our lives.

On contrary, Sometime women too emphasises on love such that they start demanding their men to just leave their work in hand no matter the importance & how urgent is it required to be done but they just need them to be available all time......In both these cases ai'nt we feel like saying....How mean??

Frankly speaking man's work is the co-wife for every woman ...lolz.. :-)

Co-wife because men are spending more time & are very busy & engaged all the time with their work thinking 24*7 about the same prioritising many times their work before the women of their lives & their relations.

This is nothing but just the possessiveness of both...One who is possessive for work & the other for love & there is no end for these possessiveness making balance in their lives more difficult by unable to meet or satisfy each other basic needs.

I have heard girls sharing their sad stories that their partners give no time to them & few hours which they get to spend together those also are spent discussing work meetings, progress, checking official mails & answering office calls & on other sides boys complaining "yaar ek number ki chipku hai, bas main hi main chahiye chaubiso ghante :-) Sarcastic though very common stories of all time!!

But many problems here gets solved  just when these two understand & accepts each other needs & handle them with care.

If man remembers that just like his work is so important for him for woman he is as important as it is & if he can't stay without his work than how could he expect woman to stay  without him?? at the same time woman should also understand that if man cant give time when he is in work that doesn't mean he don't love or respect her but its just that he has his priorities in which work comes first which she needs to accept as ultimately he too has his need of being loved & loving for which he will surely return to his one & only option .......his woman just like an old hindi song "Jaaiye Aap Kahaan Jaayenge
Ye Nazar Laut Ke Phir Aayegii "  ;-)
So why to treat these blissful needs of each other with possessiveness.

If man is busy working give him his own time & he will be back happily to cheer up with his love & if woman is craving for her man's time he should also give her his time so that she won't ever want him to leave his work next time as by then she knows he will be there for her once he is done with her co-wife....his work ;-)

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Falling in love with place we daily visit....."Our office"

How many of us do fall in love with their office?? Isn't that making every person reading this to stagger ahead for an answer?? & of course falling in love with beautiful places we holidayed at is common but falling in love with office??
"Office"...the place where we spend half of the time in our lives even sometime more than it, the place where we meet some of our friends, colleagues, some well wisher, some rivals, some critics..... in short the most interesting planet where we get to meet so many characteristics at the same place & time to work with.
Though many of us may not have have agreed it so far but its good to confess that we somewhere sometime are loving our office.
There being many reasons that we may not find anywhere else like getting to meet our friends daily who are actually our peers, going for tea breaks together with office gossips at every sip of it, Sharing each other "dibbas" Tiffins, office humours, back bites, festive joys & special day celebrations & last but not least our work which ultimately plays a very important role by setting our idle devil mind's busy <{:->
Do we really share our lunch anywhere we go?? do we  really have these all fun at places we often visit?? Not really... 
Adding to that, Just like in family we have  so called "Karta" the head of the family who ruins all horses in offices too we have a very interesting chief of admiration our "Boss" admiration in terms of our continuos attention that we pay to our bosses either to listen their work orders, sometime seeking their applause or  appreciations & many a time just to observe their mood swings so that we can successfully predict how our day or the coming days & months will be spent in office :-) we just keep observing them for their every whereabouts which gradually starts becoming more like an exciting thing to do! 
& Finally coming to the most ambiguous  though very natural part of this fun- short time crushes those happen in offices regularly when two different genders spend together hours & hours working together, seeing each other  flattering with the one & interacting though only for work purpose .... But it's absolutely normal thing to happen between these two opposite sexes meeting everyday at the same place "Office" making it more of fun sometime that we are left with no option than to wanting to be there everyday for all these reasons!!
Office fun is the only fun that knowingly or unknowingly we all enjoy daily in our lives & the most interesting is we get all these adventures along with getting our pockets filled in.
One would certainly fall in love with office if these all funs are lived to be enjoyed accepting our office as a place we visit daily & fall in love with!!

Good night & happy blogging!

Choosing between "Love or Arrange Marriage"

Since the contract named "Marriage" came into existence the question which has always been into discussion has still remained unanswered whether love marriage or arrange marriage .......
My opinion can be "Love marriage"......
Its really strange to know that ever since childhood our parents have always refrained us from talking to a stranger than how could one  expect us to decide upon spending the whole life with the one??
After & all marriage is not just the association of two people but two bodies & souls than how could these two absolutely different souls become one??
Specially thinking from we females point of view for us to get close or allow someone to enter into our personal space is very difficult unless we are not comfortable with the one or till we know someone to that level where our heart, our mind & eventually our soul accepts the person.
Though our parents in a very presentable way put forth their experiences to lure us with all the bliss they had in being stranger & tying the knot by getting into arrange marriage for us the imaginations of such marriages also becomes so terrifying.....
I am not saying that this applies to all as their are still many people who prefer arrange marriages just because of  reasons those could be parents preferences, rituals, customs, family pressure & businesses.
When i say family businesses i mean specially the typical business oriented families for whom the marriage itself is the most lucrative part of their family businesses which they treat as a big deal exchanging their future profit prospects with this association.
But is it always right to associate two bodies & souls for the sake of money business?? I seriously feel pity for the childrens of  such families who are given no right to select the partners of their own choice ... the one whom they love, the one whom they are more comfortable with & finally the one with whom they can spend their whole lives happily.
People in such marriages end up taking each other as a lifetime duty unlike those in love marriages who spend their lives caring lovingly each other :-)
Many of us still under the myth fear love marriages. The myth that marriages are all about the association of two families & that families intervenes in mishaps only if its an arrange marriage & they wont extend their support if its the love marriage......My understanding here is why to let your relation depend on the support of others & is such a worth relation when it needs to be guided & is influenced by others on contrary in love marriages the life time association gets built on just the mutual understandings & support of two people who are in truly love with each other :-)
At the same time, iam not saying families are of few importance in marriages but either be love or arrange their value remains the same in both & its always suggested that things could be much better when families also accept the fact that finally this should be the choice of those who ultimately have to spend their whole lives together.
Frankly telling for people like me who believe in living every single moment of life arrange marriages will never work out because till the time we start knowing & understanding each other for us we might have missed much of it, we just cant wait for love to happen & who knows in our arrange marriage whether it may happen or may not?? & knowing that in love marriage right from every single minute after marriage we have much to live we can never miss it!!
Last but not least facing the truth & to say is marriage is just like gambling you never know which marriage works out for you so its better to take chance by loving & be prepared for win & loss situation!! & believe this if its won than the sky's the limit for both :-) 
So.....Its good to set our heart free & let it love to whom it loves & just because of the fear of love marriage don't stop loving. Love marriage is much better always than the one arranged atleast it solves the actual purpose of being married....That is to spend life happily with the person whom you love rather than spending the whole life knowing & understanding to accept for loving the very stranger person in your life.

Good night & Happy blogging!