Tuesday, May 21, 2013

We are never grown till we are child again.

Who says with growing age we all grow?? The truth is that we just go on adding years & years to our lives....Otherwise the child in us stays forever.
You might be wondering which child am i talking about?? So let me elucidate that i am talking about the child in all of us.
The child which appears every often in us specially with those whom we are more comfortable with & from whom we are pampered giving us the feel of maternal & paternal tenderness.
To know here is that their are two children in us i am about to mention

  1. The grown up child within us &
  2. Child who is not grown.

Grown up child in us is the one who is directed & who follows our brain showing the sign of every maturity needed at par with our growing age.
But at the same time our not grown child is the one who is more influenced by our heart just like the title of the film "Dil toh bachcha hai ji".
The relation between these two children in us is just like our brain & heart sometime the brain plays its role & sometime our heart....but not to forget that both of their role plays very important part in our lives.
One who matures us & the other who makes us child again making the balance between these two very crucial.
Never let either of these to rule or over rule other, consequently let them play their roles as & when rightly assigned to them by you.
So, Make them appear when their appearance is needed as per the situations of life & the people we are associated with.
More like role plays we can be child to them who are too matured to tackle it & parenting those who are more comfortable to be child with us.
We are never grown till we are child again, Its always good that we don't try to over control child in us...Let it play, enjoy & have fun as it does because our grown up child innate is the one who will take care of it all time just like the grown up siblings in a family does towards all the mischief's of their youngest by controlling & guiding towards the set ethics & who understands the child being a very joyous companion to be with.
Eventually, Don't be matured all the time its good & natural to be child  sometime making life interesting with all its fun & to live it to the fullest ........after all who amongst us don't miss their childhoods :-) & don't like to be child again!! 

Bye & Happy Blogging!

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