Cooking has always been a special part of my life......its more like a stress relieving pill for me.
I enjoy most of my time cooking experimenting some thing new every time i cook.
My experience says that for every woman its very helpful & revitalising which not only satisfies the stomach by eating what is been made but also satisfying our soul's need of nurturing our loved ones as feeding people whom you love whom you like is the best way to love them & being their :-)
How good it would be if this could also be understood by the opposite sex.... men, Why man don't gives it a thought once that if he prefers his woman to cook delicious food for him & the one who cooks food well is the one who manages to get the boarding pass to his heart.........then how it would be if he also try to get this one for him???
I mean.. If for women cooking for men is needed just to care or impress them through feeding good tasty food & win their hearts than why cant a man cook to win his woman's heart??
Simply speaking we women also do expect our men to cook sometime for us.......Well i know i may sound like a female chauvinist too sarcastic here but its the bitter truth & a hidden suspense of every woman's need.
Only difference is that some women may accept & speak this up & some may not but somewhere sometime just a cup of tea or a coffee made by man means a world to her as well.
Not being biased towards same gender i must also say that at the same time its the responsibility of every woman also to make sure that she manages to make her man do this not for dominating him but to feel his love knowing well the limitations of his self respect & without hurting his so called male ego which he sets aside just for the sake of his love towards her.
So i suggest that this could be managed well if it is understood by both of them that inspite of the gender differences their both emotional nurturing needs are same & none of them should let their ego's intervene between their way of cooking for each other & take it as a sign of dominating.....but as a beautiful way of loving more each other unconditionally.
Finally concluding that let not the cooking be the only way of we women but also of men to love & nurture the women of their lives......& seriously just a single cup of tea with love served to your loved one will make a big loving difference & mean a world to her :-)
I am sure after reading this if you haven't ever tried before but next time you would love to do this not because you are being dominated by your woman but because you want to love & mean a world to her!!
Good Night & Happy blogging!
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