Thursday, October 13, 2016

Flirtationship

Just like relationship we can have flirtationship ......lol!

Its all about flirting which exactly in the meaning of dictionary is 
"To behave as though sexually attracted to someone, but playfully rather than with serious intentions"

"Experiment with or show a superficial interest in (an idea, activity, or movement) without committing oneself to it seriously".

Attraction to opposite sex is quite natural & universal or else its considered to be abnormality ;-P

Come on guys lets accept it that some time some where with someone we all feel to flirt :-)

Good read explains "For those who are single its their way of saying I am free & to those in committed relationship its their way of saying I am bored".

Its natural...Just like given to eat same food every day anyone would get bored of it, we all need changes to spice up our routine appetite :-)

Truth here is that flirting is not always wrong, for those who are single & are bored of all their freedom ;-) &  those who are  already in committed relationships for them to be free to flirt without needing any dedication gets excited.


Recently this is practised as being in "Lifestyle" by many committed partners those with each others mutual understanding & consent get into the fun outside their own relations, more like open marriages or relationships, swapping, swinging.....which may sound filthy to us to some extent.

But, belief here is that it helps them to stay loyal by not requiring to cheat on each other in relationship.

Its on their own acceptance setting certain conditions mutually & not on each others back they do it for the fact that we all need changes to spice up our existing relations.

After & all flirting is just for fun & reality is so called "Love".

Until you don't flirt you won't enjoy the pleasure in sincerity of love & unless you don't love, flirting can get you boring.... 

Real bliss here is when these two different relationship status (Single & committed) after all the flirting fun starts craving to get back to their own freedom & commitments respectively.

Singles ready to mingle & those committed ready to dedicate ;-)

In typical hindi language "kabhi na kabhi toh ghar ke hi khane ki yaad aayegihi, kab tak koi baahar hi khata rahega" "aakhir asli swaad ghar ke hi khane mein hi toh hai joh uske baad aur zyada tasty lagne lag jata hai" 
;-)

Lastly contradicting to this, no matter how open minded people are, the acceptance rate amongst men & women may vary, as this may not be so easily acceptable by everyone without getting emotionally hurt involving deep emotions,  which may either improve or worsen everything.

It may get very difficult sometime... so its better to play it carefully :-)

Happy Blogging!

Monday, March 21, 2016

Long distance close relationships

In relationships do we really think we are as close as we should be? Do we really understand each other to that extent? where just love exist & feelings speaks....

Lol... Funny but true fact, We can never be that close as we always think we are, no matter how much time we spend living together.

Thats a bliss with "Long distance close relationships" :-)
One understand other only through mental connection which is more of emotions & love than physical.

Long distance relations are really hard to survive but if they does then they are undoubtedly unbreakable whatsoever it may be.

Reason is these relations are based on mutual respect and deep faith between partners, the strong connection between them that brings them together for their emotional needs from each other.

Those who can survive such long distances in relations & never apart then nothing can ever fall in between.

Patience in every relation plays vital role & this becomes a strong base of long distance relations where partners go through a very hard long time patience test; which on qualifying can never let either of them lose it ever in any circumstances.

Many relations fails due to high expectations from each other... & here partners have already compromised highly to that level where they just live upto just a single expectation.... "love" .....wow! how romantic :-)

Its just all about always coming back again & again for each other & thats really amazing... isn't that?

Not to forget, if not handled properly such relations have high chances of failure as well, if either of them fail to understand partner needs & to understand how it feels to him or her with what is done by other being away, this could be alarming too.

So understanding partner every need & to compromise thereby with the situation to accept the fact & to be prepared to accept....of course without being jealous anything that partner does that keeps him or her fulfilled & happy is what it takes to make "Long distance close relationships" work.

Last but not least, Inspite of all the delights partners really need to make all best efforts to make sure none of them ever lose it & back out with the feeling of loneliness as after & all we all need someone, someday, sometime nearby...so its good to make it happen with joint efforts & love...

Enjoy blogging & reading :-)